A blinding date

Professor Peter Flagstone of the York University in Australia has been doing extensive research on behaviour of men in relation to women.

His conclusion is that most men when they are going to meet a woman, are thinking about the question whether that woman will be mateable.
Whether she is a possible candidate to mate, to have sex with and maybe to team up with.

Before to meet, the men make an image in their minds how she might look.
Creating a fantasy figure based on the specific preferences of the man.
No wonder, in most cases, that the man is deeply disappointed by the woman he eventually meets.
She cannot live up to his fantasy and expectations.
She doesn’t fit in his profile and with the mate instinct frozen now, there is little chance even a friendship could develop.

It is as also the famous mind doctor from Vienna, Austria, Sigmund Freud was claiming: always sex is on men’s mind.

The knowledge above became relevant when receiving two days ago an e-mail:

Hi Michel, today I saw you on the streets of La Paz BCS, and previously had read and seen some interesting things from you, above all very beautiful pictures, forgive the tutearte, I have 25 years, but I think you like you talk in confidence, after having seen ... check your page and your blog really interesting and beautiful places good adventures of our planet earth, for me you are welcome to this land sudcalifornianas, you have ... a good trip and good adventures! congratulation.

Christyna

What is an innocent man supposed to do when receiving such an e-mail?
Ignore it?
Or to reply politely and diplomatically and make life go on?
Or respond to the invitation to “I think you like you talk in confidence, after having seen…” by proposing a meeting?

Of course, fervent and loyal blog readers, being a decent man the solution immediately coming to mind in a most natural way was to write thank you very much and be well to Miss Christyna of 25 years old.
But then there is this duty to serve hundreds of readers every day of the year with a fascinating, educative and entertaining posting on this blog.
Waving only digitally to Christyna won’t do the fervent and loyal blog readers any good, right?

Hence, forced by those circumstances, and sacrificing many personal moral principles, an e-mail was send to Miss Christyna with a proposal to meet.
On Tuesday at 13.00 hours in a coffee shop opposite of the Catholic Cathedral of La Paz.

After arriving in the coffee shop to meet the young woman, and keep in mind that it was only to have new material for another posting, it was noticed that the thoughts in the mind were similar as have been detected by Professor Peter Flagstone of the York University in Australia.
Imaginations popped up involuntarily of the person to meet.
And it was realized that unfortunately the situation the protagonist had himself manoeuvred in by the fervent and loyal blog readers was a loose-loose situation.
Either a woman would walk in poorly dressed with a body totally out of shape.
With tight leggings while seriously overweight showing more body fat than forms.
With sagging free breasts with nipples at belly bottom level.
Dandruff in the hair like a Christmas landscape and showing, when smiling, no money to fix the teeth properly.
Or a woman would walk in with a presence of a film star and the allure of a Polish lady.
With a well trained athletic body and dressed attractively without being vulgar.
In both cases it would be a situation impossible to manage and pushing the level of nervousness to unprecedented heights.

However, this awareness of being in a loose-loose situation was rather unavoidable.
Christyna had to be faced no matter what.
A mistake was made and decency forced to remain there and eat the self served sour apple in the coffee shop.

To pass the time productively while waiting for the woman the laptop Mac Book was switched on to reply and send mail.
When it was discovered that the mail program had a problem.
It had not been sending e-mails for over a day.
This had not been noticed but now it was discovered that in the mailbox to send were over 30 messages waiting to go.
Including the one to Miss Christyna inviting her to the coffee shop.
In other words, the waiting was for a person who would never come.
The invitation was never send.

Goes to show how well life takes care of us.




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