Saturday, April 11, 2009

Risk free womanizing

A hiccup in the planning of the book “Sequences: the ultimate selection”.
All the negatives of the sequences need to be scanned.
About 500.
However, in order to scan properly the sizes must be known of the scans to make.
This information is not available yet and therefore the immense job has not been started yet.

The negatives of the sequences are safely in the house of the cousin in Nowy Sacz, Poland.
The house famous with many fervent and loyal blog readers for its luxurious bathroom.
Where it is wonderful to stay, surrounded by loving family, but where equilibrium has to be found for not being able to scan yet.


Meanwhile deep reflection is performed for a response to yesterday’s posting.
In there a lunch was described in Amsterdam, the Netherlands with a beautiful lady with blond curly hair.
She has been sending a message saying that her lunch companion is a fervent and loyal womanizer.

Now, as many male fervent and loyal blog readers will know, when a woman tells you that you are a womanizer it all depends who exactly is saying it.
And how.
Is it said with a smile on the face?
Or is she deadly serious?
Is it a discontent and disappointed woman cheated too often or is it a woman who is in control?
Is it an accusation or is it a compliment?
Hence, is it positive or is it negative?

In this case it is absolutely positive.
It is not intended as a condemnation followed by being banned to Saint Helena.
To the contrary.
This very lady, exceptional already as she is, is entertained when charmed by certain men.
Easy for her because she is so totally balanced within herself that she will never fall over.
It is risk free for both.

This is the best for a woman and a man.
Because he can charm and she can be charmed simply and only for the enjoyment of both.



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2 comments:

PrimeroMujerBaja said...

This blog points out something I have discovered about the American culture. It has lost the ability to "Flirt" without having someone of the "Flirting couple" go off the deep end. It seems the very engaging talent of Flirting is no longer important. Flirting in the USA (I do not know about the rest of the world) seems to be a situation where a man gets up the courage to approach a woman he considers attractive and without introducing himself says some vaguely provacative mostley vulgar thing and then the woman responds in a vaguely encouraging but mostly insulting remark. Flirting used to involve teasing, suggestiveness without vulgarity and ineresting dialogue. Oh, I must be getting old!

Michel Szulc Krzyzanowski said...

Described in the posting is the European way of flirting. Vigorously performed when possible by the pioneering photographer. Too bad for the Americans: they make miss the American Ladies and themselves a lot of pleasure in life by having forgotten to flirt and knowing now banging only. PrimeroMujerBaja needs flowers and a kiss on her hand as if she was a Princess, Yanks!!!